Okay this is mainly a rant but oh how i HATE stupid people! If you have nobody( doctor wont answer my questions and nobody else i know have answers) and im trying to figure out something to keep my baby healthy then how the hell does being poor and not knowing everything make a bad mother and mean all i do is make excuses!?!? I get my state has a crappy ER, my doctor sucks, and i dont have a way to go somewhere else but like i said I DONT KNOW! Its why im asking moms who know more for advice... so i dont get it... ugh i hate this stupid state and stupid people! I dont care that im 17 im hella sure im better then a mother who is doing drugs or beating and killing their kids... i love my daughter no matter what age i am ... ugh sorry yall just had to get that out ...
I don't get what you are saying?
Quoting Mummy :):" I don't get what you are saying?"
Sweetie, there are a lot of teen moms who are GREAT mothers. Despite the fact my cousin lets her child get away with too much - she's only one but still - she's a great mom! She was definitely made to be a mom, she's excellent. Don't let people get you down just because you are young. It's ridiculous. My mom was 16 when she had me, and she was/is a great mom.
I don't know what questions you have and what you're seeking, but keep seeking it. You will find your answers.
Quoting Jessica- Mom of 4:" Me either!!!"
she's saying that she has questions and nobody is answering them! People are ignoring her, or telling her because she's poor she's a bad mom.
Quoting ♥ Letters to Alice:" she's saying that she has questions and nobody is answering them! People are ignoring her, or telling her because she's poor she's a bad mom. "
Ahh ok i see. What questions do you have i might be able to help. I am a young mum myself.
What are your questions? Maybe we'll be able to help. :D
She's just having a b***h fit. We all have em. Anyways..maybe you could find a mama on baby gaga in your area or close that yould like to answer questions. Idk if you have fb but if you do u can add me ill answer questions. I have a 5 yr old and had her at 17
Quoting KitKat&Jap:" What are your questions? Maybe we'll be able to help. :D"
Just tired of being called a bad mom cuz of my age n the doctors in the area i live... my doctor sucks so just wanted advice but people making me feel like BS :/ i feel n hurt my ribs( dont think its broke, just bruised and knotted) but my ER wants x-rays so i asked some other moms if pains as my baby is moving is normal after bruising or should i be scared... my belly just gets hard, shootin pains, and just not something im used to and this is my first kid.. but being told im a bad mom for trying to find out if its normal is crappy
Seriously, you need to go to another doctor. Just when you have checkups, see a random doctor, see if you like that one more.
Im 29 weeks is it to late to switch? And how would i switch my doctor if so cause i dont know anything bout that ?
It is never too late to switch. It's your body, your baby, your pregnancy. All you do is call your clinic and make an appointment with a different doctor, or call a different clinic and ask for an obgyn that's available to meet with you. Tell them you are seeking a new one.
Okay thank you i will look into that for sure!
Quoting Skye's momma:" Okay this is mainly a rant but oh how i HATE stupid people! If you have nobody( doctor wont answer my ... [snip!] ... or beating and killing their kids... i love my daughter no matter what age i am ... ugh sorry yall just had to get that out ..."
hun dont let people get to you being a teen mom dont mean shit all it means its you have to try that much harder. age has nothing to do with being a good mom.
dont let people get to you stress is not good for you or your baby.. like i said before if you need advise or someone to talk to you can always message me