I want to support my bf. Fashona Georgia 4 posts
Apr 17th '12

Me and my bf have been together THIS time for 1 year and 4 months. He told me in the beginning of our relationship this time around, that in his last relationship his gf was pregnant and stopped talking to him for almost a year then comes around during the time me and him were talking and tells him the reason she stopped talking to him for a while was because her mom made her get an abortion and stop talking to him. I feel so bad and I wanna be there for him if he ever gets sad or emotional at all about it. But I feel so angry and jealous towards her because having a baby with someone is like creating a special bond and she just threw it away. He tells me that he will always love her because she was his bm and they were great together but he would never leave me for anyone. Hes gonna marry me. How do I get over the fact that basically she was the one to carry his first child, I wanted to do that. How do I cope with this it seriously makes me so sad to the point Im bowling.

anonymom + 1.5 2 kids; West Virginia 10787 posts
Apr 17th '12

She did not throw away a baby. She was forced, or made, a very, very big decision that may have been best for all involved.



I would put this in another forum.



Plenty of people will always care for their exes/babymamas/daddys in some way, but that doesn't mean they can't have meaningful relationships with other people.

user banned Due September 27 (girl); 4 kids; Nova Scotia 28962 posts
Apr 17th '12

How old are you and your boyfriend?

user banned Due March 21; 1 child; Colorado 67779 posts
Apr 17th '12

Um... She didnt throw anything away. :? Get over it dude. & impregnating someone doesn't necessarily create a special bond

♡☆º×ß¡±©µ×º☆♡ 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Centralia, Wa, United States 49857 posts
Apr 17th '12

take your Prolife bullshit somewhere else okay

~~My Pet Wussy~~ 3 kids; USA 23736 posts
Apr 17th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Fashona:</b>" Me and my bf have been together THIS time for 1 year and 4 months. He told me in the beginning of our ... [snip!] ... to carry his first child, I wanted to do that. How do I cope with this it seriously makes me so sad to the point Im bowling."</blockquote>




Strike!



Seriously this doesn't belong in abortion survivors.



How old are y'all?

Gold 3 kids; Stuffed with a, ., Turkey 67018 posts
Apr 17th '12

Wow, really?

♡☆º×ß¡±©µ×º☆♡ 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Centralia, Wa, United States 49857 posts
Apr 17th '12

This needs to be in tdc

user banned Due March 21; 1 child; Colorado 67779 posts
Apr 17th '12

Why was this flagged as spam ? ...

anonymom + 1.5 2 kids; West Virginia 10787 posts
Apr 17th '12
Quoting Mrs. Conan [getting fit]:" Um... She didnt throw anything away. :? Get over it dude. & impregnating someone doesn't necessarily create a special bond"


SO (supposedly, he doesn't really believe it) got an ex pregnant completely on accident, and she miscarried before she got a OB appointment. He definitely does not want to be with her.



EVery child is special.

B♥E♥A♥R 2 kids; Missouri 1232 posts
Apr 17th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Harajuku Girl:</b>" Well, if you're fine enough to go bowling, what's the problem? :lol:"</blockquote>




:lol:

anonymom + 1.5 2 kids; West Virginia 10787 posts
Apr 17th '12
Quoting Mrs. Conan [getting fit]:" Why was this flagged as spam ? ..."


Wrong forum?



I didn't think that was adequate reason but I see it happen.

user banned Due March 21; 1 child; Colorado 67779 posts
Apr 17th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Harajuku Girl:</b>" Well, if you're fine enough to go bowling, what's the problem? :lol:"</blockquote>




Lolz

Gold 3 kids; Stuffed with a, ., Turkey 67018 posts
Apr 17th '12
Quoting Harajuku Girl:" Well, if you're fine enough to go bowling, what's the problem? :lol:"


:lol:

The Blissful Six 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Massachusetts 10260 posts
Apr 17th '12

Well, I kinda think you're dwelling on something you shouldn't. There is no child. You will be the mother of his "first" child. No need to cause issues if there isn't one. Just let it go and enjoy your relationship.