Cast Your Vote:

    • Yes, just in case -- Votes: 13
    • No, I would trust their word not to -- Votes: 2
    • I wouldn't leave my child with them in the first place -- Votes: 117
animaLibera_ Due May 8; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Ohio 7987 posts
Apr 13th '12
Quoting IMHO:" Change your name then. But make a post letting us know! I hate when someone I've been chatting with ... [snip!] ... their name, then starts talking to me with familiarity and I have no idea who it is until I go look at their profile. LOL"


Lol yeah I know what you mean. That's why I haven't changed it yet to be honest, it's like a new identity I have to get used to or something. Plus I don't know what I'd pick anyway. :(

Devil's Advocate Beverly Hills, California 18191 posts
Apr 13th '12

LMAO.




Tis all.

animaLibera_ Due May 8; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Ohio 7987 posts
Apr 15th '12

Does anybody know what a jinco is?



Is it a Spanish word or something?

. , Richmond, VA, United States 75118 posts
Apr 15th '12
Quoting LoBrew:" Does anybody know what a jinco is? Is it a Spanish word or something? "

She meant Jnco's :lol: They were big in the 90s.

animaLibera_ Due May 8; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Ohio 7987 posts
Apr 15th '12
Quoting Regina Phalange:" She meant Jnco's :lol: They were big in the 90s."


Like juggalo pants?



I just googled it and they look like the tripps that juggalos wear. :lol:

. , Richmond, VA, United States 75118 posts
Apr 15th '12
Quoting LoBrew:" Like juggalo pants? I just googled it and they look like the tripps that juggalos wear. :lol:"

Everyone wore them then, but yeah lol. Those big ass jeans.

animaLibera_ Due May 8; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Ohio 7987 posts
Apr 15th '12
Quoting Regina Phalange:" Everyone wore them then, but yeah lol. Those big ass jeans."


Ohh okay.



I wonder why she thinks I wear those. :lol:

. , Richmond, VA, United States 75118 posts
Apr 15th '12
Quoting LoBrew:" Ohh okay. I wonder why she thinks I wear those. :lol:"

I was lost on that part too. :lol:

snglemama 4 kids; Georgia 11978 posts
Apr 15th '12
Quoting Kelly +2 ERF/EH!!:" I would take MY child with ME."



!!

if you move out, and do not take your child... you are abandoning him./her in my opinion unless there is a VERY important reason.

if you are close enough to visit that frequently... there is no reason to mve

......... nowhere, NW, United States 25972 posts
Apr 15th '12
Quoting LoBrew:" Does anybody know what a jinco is? Is it a Spanish word or something? "


It's Jnco. A brand of clothing. Used to be sold at Hot Topic (other places too), not sure if it still is...didn't even know they were still "in".

......... nowhere, NW, United States 25972 posts
Apr 15th '12
Quoting Regina Phalange:" Everyone wore them then, but yeah lol. Those big ass jeans."


Yup. I even had some...lol...and I don't even like ICP (blech).



They were popular with the "alternative" crowd.

......... nowhere, NW, United States 25972 posts
Apr 15th '12
Quoting LoBrew:" Ohh okay. I wonder why she thinks I wear those. :lol:"


Cause don't you know, all pot smokers dress stupid...or all people that wear Jnco's must smoke pot..haha..idk.

user banned 1 child; Golden, Colorado 28482 posts
Apr 16th '12
Quoting snglemama:" !! if you move out, and do not take your child... you are abandoning him./her in my opinion unless ... [snip!] ... unless there is a VERY important reason. if you are close enough to visit that frequently... there is no reason to mve"


I think that's kind of close-minded... I mean I had to leave my child with my Mom and stepdad for a brief period of time. I could have had my child with me while I was in school, but for the time being it was better for Lily to live with them. I was NOT abandoning her though. She lived with them for oh... 6 months I think? But it certainly wasn't abandonment. Some people do what's best but it's not abandonment.

snglemama 4 kids; Georgia 11978 posts
Apr 16th '12
Quoting FroggysMommy:" I think that's kind of close-minded... I mean I had to leave my child with my Mom and stepdad for a ... [snip!] ... with them for oh... 6 months I think? But it certainly wasn't abandonment. Some people do what's best but it's not abandonment."


why couldn't you stay?

sorry, unless my kids were in danger of starving.. I would not be without them. But.. I'm biased. I was given up for adoption.. and I always felt abandoned as a child and used to think I'd rather live ina cardboard box with my mom than have had her give me away.

user banned 1 child; Golden, Colorado 28482 posts
Apr 17th '12
Quoting snglemama:" why couldn't you stay? sorry, unless my kids were in danger of starving.. I would not be without ... [snip!] ... felt abandoned as a child and used to think I'd rather live ina cardboard box with my mom than have had her give me away."


Because I needed to be in school. My parents lived an hour away and I didnt have childcare outside of them. Since they moved away for work for awhile they had to take Lily so I could finish school. I wasn't about to quit school and move with them just for a temporary job they had. That would of been seriously stupid on my end.