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The toughest decision ever.... Hailee(: Due February 22; 1 child; 4 angel babies; Georgia 1096 posts
Apr 11th '12

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SavageDarling 3 kids; Webster, Massachusetts 10381 posts
Apr 11th '12

Youre making a difficult decision for the sake of your family and you're a very strong woman at 18 for it. Good luck and I hope it goes smoothly.

Lexi-Avery-Dylan-Gabe 4 kids; Evansville, Indiana 2218 posts
Apr 11th '12

Sorry you are having to make this difficult decision! I wish you the best!
** hugs**

user banned 2 kids; Grand Rapids, Michigan 21095 posts
Apr 11th '12

I am sorry this is such a hard decision for you. I can tell you are making the right decision for you and your family.I hope everything goes well for you.

RadioactiveCat 2 kids; Roanoke, VA, United States 22958 posts
Apr 11th '12

Abortion is safer than a pregnancy in the best of times. With all your complications, I am sure no one would blame you.
I did a mifeprex abortion and it was fine. Just some nausea and cramps. Really, it was just like a really heavy period.

user banned 4 kids; 00000, WE, Malta 68658 posts
Apr 11th '12

Best of luck! I think I'd probably do the same in your position.

Yurvette [♥] TTC since Jan 2016; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 37262 posts
Apr 11th '12

I had the pill. and I would go with the pill. but I would have someone take your son for overnight. I had cramps but I mean its just like being in labor but only for a few short hours.

Hailee(: Due February 22; 1 child; 4 angel babies; Georgia 1096 posts
Apr 11th '12
Quoting MommaSav2:" Youre making a difficult decision for the sake of your family and you're a very strong woman at 18 for it. Good luck and I hope it goes smoothly."


Thank you. That means alot. i hope so too!

Amy {OneGirl, TwoBoys} 3 kids; Cincinnati, Oh, United States 24257 posts
Apr 11th '12

i'd probably do the same in your situation.



my cousin took the pill. she had "worst period of her life" symptoms she said

Hailee(: Due February 22; 1 child; 4 angel babies; Georgia 1096 posts
Apr 11th '12
Quoting Y[♥]:" I had the pill. and I would go with the pill. but I would have someone take your son for overnight. I had cramps but I mean its just like being in labor but only for a few short hours."



Well, i moved back in with my parents for the time being because my dad had spinal surgery and I'm taking care of him.. So I might just let them keep him and go back home or something.. because I know it's going to be emotional!

~RJS~ Stockholm, Sweden 4552 posts
Apr 11th '12

I wish you all the best and that this goes as well as it possibly can. You are making a good decision, in your situation I would do the same

Hailee(: Due February 22; 1 child; 4 angel babies; Georgia 1096 posts
Apr 11th '12

Thank you everyone for the advice. I did a lot of research on it so far. They say they give you that, and a follow up pill for it to move out of you and antibiotics and pain pills. I know this is going to weigh heavy on my heart. ): I appreciate all the reassurance!!

Yurvette [♥] TTC since Jan 2016; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 37262 posts
Apr 11th '12
Quoting Hailee(::" Well, i moved back in with my parents for the time being because my dad had spinal surgery and I'm ... [snip!] ... care of him.. So I might just let them keep him and go back home or something.. because I know it's going to be emotional!"


I think that is for the best. :) GL mama!

Mirah 1 child; Mississippi 913 posts
Apr 11th '12

I have to admit, I'm normally prolife, but situtations like yours are the exception. It's an awful and difficult decision you're faced with. I don't think there is any easy solution to something like this.
I try not to bring religion into BG but I'll pray for you, that whatever decision you end up making you have peace about it in your heart.
{{{HUGS}}}

*Lolo* Due October 6; 5 kids; Belvidere, Illinois 5591 posts
Apr 11th '12
Quoting Mirah:" I have to admit, I'm normally prolife, but situtations like yours are the exception. It's an awful and ... [snip!] ... into BG but I'll pray for you, that whatever decision you end up making you have peace about it in your heart. {{{HUGS}}}"


:!::!: in these situations you have to. your son needs a mom more than a sibling.



ill be praying