Quoting Down East Mama:" OP obviously you have never been in this type of situation, I hope you never have to be. I am still dealing with it over 2 1/2 years later."
You do not know that for sure, people deal with being the victim of things in many different ways, she may still be in the self blaming stage. It is highly unlikely and more probable that this is a troll just out fro drama but the fact is some people do go through a stage where they believe it is their own fault and some even go to the extreme of feeling all victims bring it on themselves. She could also have grown up in a house where domestic violence occurred and feels that the victim could have done more to get away from that situation and maybe harbouring some serious anger about it and is lashing out.
(I wonder how many times I will have to copy paste this to people saying the same thing)
Quoting Bovine Burlesque:" You do not know that for sure, people deal with being the victim of things in many different ways, she ... [snip!] ... anger about it and is lashing out. (I wonder how many times I will have to copy paste this to people saying the same thing)"
Then do not waste your time copy and pasting this.
Quoting Down East Mama:" Then do not waste your time copy and pasting this."
Saves me retyping pretty much the same thing to everyone who thinks they know exactly how every single victim will ever react and behave.
I like a good sausage beating. :lol:
now im hungry for sausage. and i mean actual sausage
Quoting IMHO:" For some reason that makes me think of the Betty White quote: "Why does everyone say, 'Grow some balls!' ... [snip!] ... to toughen up? Balls are sensitive and delicate. They should say, 'Grow a vagina!'... those things can really take a beating!""
Hal Sparks says similar lol
Well, someone needs to come kick your f**king ass. On a personal note I never asked for it and when a man is bigger then you and you fear for your life there is not much you can to about it b***h! So unless you have delt with it or know on a personal level shut your damn mouth.