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user banned California 14075 posts
Mar 7th '12

If it was a p**n star or something then nah. i wouldn't be upset.

user banned 2 kids; Washington 17453 posts
Mar 7th '12
Quoting WeenieMachine:" Well, I don't make idle threats so if I told him before that I'd be gone if he did it again, then I'd stand by that and peace the f**k out."


^^What she said.

Disappearing Meemz 15 kids; Indiana 88176 posts
Mar 7th '12

He'd have to go. IDGAF about random ass p**n, but an aquaintance? Hell no. Double hell no. Cause that brings up the whole question of how did he get it, are they speaking inappropriately when I'm not there, etc.

♥Love♥ 1 child; 2 angel babies; California 10934 posts
Mar 7th '12

A girl he knew? and you had already given him a chance? Id leave. He is probably physically cheating with her as well. I consider sending n**e pictures cheating. I would be devastated. I wouldnt have deleted them though, he probably will just get more sadly. Deleting them wont make a difference :(

Ronnie RadKat 4 kids; Arizona 23261 posts
Mar 7th '12
Quoting Little MerMeemz:" He'd have to go. IDGAF about random ass p**n, but an aquaintance? Hell no. Double hell no. Cause that ... [snip!] ... no. Cause that brings up the whole question of how did he get it, are they speaking inappropriately when I'm not there, etc."



Exactly. Way too much deceit, disrespect for me to be able to stay with him.

~*~ Nichole ~*~ 4 kids; Vancouver, Washington 11261 posts
Mar 7th '12
Quoting WeenieMachine:" Well, I don't make idle threats so if I told him before that I'd be gone if he did it again, then I'd stand by that and peace the f**k out."


This exactly. We would be over and done with.

IMHO 2 kids; Ontario 7746 posts
Mar 7th '12

A picture of some random actress on his computer: okay. On his phone, which he carries with him all of the time? No. Because that would show a level of obsession that isn't acceptable.



A naked picture of someone he knew in person, on computer/phone/in his wallet: he better f**king call her up and they both better run like hell...

user banned California 29193 posts
Mar 7th '12
Quoting ♥ss:" Last night I was on my husbands phone and found n**e pictures of girls, one I knew and a random video..He ... [snip!] ... you'll see. How would you feel and what would you do? I already know I want to do, but I want to hear from you ladies also. "


You already gave the warning, now you have to follow through; otherwise you essentially just gave him permission to walk on you. I'd be out of there.

how khuntastik 4 kids; California 1273 posts
Mar 7th '12
Quoting IMHO:" A picture of some random actress on his computer: okay. On his phone, which he carries with him all of ... [snip!] ... someone he knew in person, on computer/phone/in his wallet: he better f**king call her up and they both better run like hell..."

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especially for the third time, sorry mama!

user banned California 14075 posts
Mar 7th '12
Quoting IMHO:" A picture of some random actress on his computer: okay. On his phone, which he carries with him all of ... [snip!] ... someone he knew in person, on computer/phone/in his wallet: he better f**king call her up and they both better run like hell..."


i don't think its a big deal to have an actress on his PHONE. Maybe that's just me though.



I don't think there is anything wrong with it.



but when its personal pictures for girls that send him pictures -- then yeah.

What if... 2 kids; Ontario 4587 posts
Mar 7th '12

hahaha. it's not even funny how over we would be. gtfo, bro.

[♥Permanent♥] 50 kids; Georgia 2956 posts
Mar 7th '12

He was warned and still didnt give a f**k. He obviously doesnt believe you'll follow through so prove him wrong. Fool me once shame on you. Fool me twice shame on me. Tell him pack his shit and kick rocks rocks. I'm sorry it won't change

Rock Springs, Wyoming 1850 posts
Mar 7th '12

his ass would be out the door, p**n is one thing but pics of people you know, wow, what disrespectful people.

IMHO 2 kids; Ontario 7746 posts
Mar 7th '12
Quoting aℓicia♡;LPC:" i don't think its a big deal to have an actress on his PHONE. Maybe that's just me though. I don't ... [snip!] ... I don't think there is anything wrong with it. but when its personal pictures for girls that send him pictures -- then yeah."


I imagine the level of tolerance is different for everyone. I would have to question why he had it on his phone--- that he had to have it at his fingertips at all times like that. I'm not comfortable with that. My hubby respects my particular idiosyncrasies, lol I would also raise an eyebrow if he was ogling naked pics all of the time.

Jacob'sKeeper 2 kids; some little town, MT, United States 9806 posts
Mar 7th '12

I'd have a bag waitin for him and tell him to go stay with the b***h who sent him the n**e pic. You warned him, it's time to GTFO.