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LaRelle Due May 4 (boy); Havre de Grace, Maryland 250 posts
Sep 21st '12
Quoting ♥ axel sean n me:" oh no that sucks :( axels doing slightly better but not great still, last night he slept 7-9 then at ... [snip!] ... pretty harsh but im sure they will come to some sort of agreement which is in brax's best interest. what have you been up to?"

Ugh why didn't he listen to you, why they do that and then they don't have to deal with the crying baby. I'm so glad he's so much happier now!! The biggest the lottery has been is over 300 million dollars. Oh well I'm used to Chris being an a*****e. I barely talk to him now if he asks about Jax then I'll answer but other than that I don't. That's a bummer it's really hard to go thru a break up with an infant. I hope they agree on something too for the baby. Moving to different state has made it somewhat easier but harder too. Easier for me cuz I don't have to see him or run into him but harder for Jax to see his dad, but Chris shows me he really doesn't care anyways. Jax needs more than someone who ask how he is everyday and has sent $150 since we've left. That's not a dad in my eyes :(:(:(

♥ The Prodigy Due March 3 (boy); 33 kids; Perth, Australia 5621 posts
Sep 23rd '12
Quoting LaRelle:" Ugh why didn't he listen to you, why they do that and then they don't have to deal with the crying baby. ... [snip!] ... Jax needs more than someone who ask how he is everyday and has sent $150 since we've left. That's not a dad in my eyes :(:(:("

because he is a guy lol yer i know i had to deal with the screaming urghhh!! last night he only woke twice so that was better but still not the best :( he was exhausted from going to seans parents house all day. but seans step dad had axel on his lap at dinner and dipped his finger in sour cream and put it in axels mouth i dont know if i should have said anything or what but i dont want him eating sour cream at 5 months old :( wow 300 mill thats heaps! its never very much here but in england it gets pretty high, not that high though!
theyre back together now :roll: theyre always breaking up then getting back together its ridiculous! yer thats right, well im sure youll meet a guy soon who will love you and jax and want to be in both your lives. sounds more like a sperm donor to me :( im sorry he is being such a crappy daddy, poor jax! i never thought things would turn out like this for u :( im sure youll find someone lovely soon.

LaRelle Due May 4 (boy); Havre de Grace, Maryland 250 posts
Sep 24th '12
Quoting ♥ axel sean n me:" because he is a guy lol yer i know i had to deal with the screaming urghhh!! last night he only woke ... [snip!] ... such a crappy daddy, poor jax! i never thought things would turn out like this for u :( im sure youll find someone lovely soon."

Well least they are back together and trying to back it work. Hopefully they don't keep doing the breaking up back together too often cuz that will be hard on the child when it gets older. Well least he's getting better, I hope he starts sleeping thru the night!!! Jax is still not sleeping thru the night either and I'm not sure what his deal is I am very confused on why he is waking up in the middle of the night. He doesn't want a bottle so it's not cuz he's hungry. I hope he breaks this phase very soon and go back to sleeping thru the night!! I'm not rushing into anything right now but I'm not gonna lie I do miss being in a relationship and every good thing that comes with a relationship. Now I have to find someone who is not just good enough for me, but is good enough for my son. Someone who's ok with me having a son, they have to take both of us!!!

♥ The Prodigy Due March 3 (boy); 33 kids; Perth, Australia 5621 posts
Sep 26th '12
Quoting LaRelle:" Well least they are back together and trying to back it work. Hopefully they don't keep doing the breaking ... [snip!] ... just good enough for me, but is good enough for my son. Someone who's ok with me having a son, they have to take both of us!!!"

yer i hope they dont too, axel has been doing the same sleeping pattern bed by 7-8pm waking at 10-11 or 12 then again at 2-2.30 then again at 7 i hope he can drop the 2 feed soon. i wonder why jax is waking again, thats weird the only thing i can think is teething but you said hes not so IDK :( does he have a paci? i forget, if so hve you tried putting it back in his mouth when he wakes up? it usually works for axel if he isnt hungry. yer i understand, when i split up with a partner im always the same (miss it) but when im in one i miss being single (sometimes) i cant win haha! oh believe me its easier than you think, i have been chatted up by a few men and tried mentioning i have a son but doesnt put them off then i say im still with the BD then they move away quickly haha! but i do hope you will find someone who loves you and jax both! are you going to go back to where christopher lives for a visit anytime?

LaRelle Due May 4 (boy); Havre de Grace, Maryland 250 posts
Sep 26th '12
Quoting ♥ axel sean n me:" yer i hope they dont too, axel has been doing the same sleeping pattern bed by 7-8pm waking at 10-11 ... [snip!] ... hope you will find someone who loves you and jax both! are you going to go back to where christopher lives for a visit anytime?"

I have no idea what is going on with Jax!!!! Monday night he woke up at 1130, 130, then again at 3 but I couldn't get him back to sleep, I even gave him a bottle to see if it would and NOPE. It was finally 615 when we went back to bed. So yesterday I was very sleepy. Last night was even worse. He woke up SEVERAL times last night a few times every hr. Yes he does have a paci and that's what I do I just give him his paci and he goes back to sleep, but I'm still having to wake up and I'm not getting a night of no interruptions. I don't understand why he slept thru the night and now he doesn't. No I'm not going to TN, I really have no reason to go there. I'm not going to TN so Chris can see his son, he can come up here. Actually he's suppose to come up here to see Jax next month. Last night he asked if he could take Jax to Virgina for a couple of days to see his sister. I am not comfortable with that at all. By the time Chris comes up here it will be almost 2 months since he's seen him (I don't know how Jax with react to Chris) and I told trust his sister. I feel like they are up to something and he won't bring Jax back. So he's not happy with me that I told him no. If his sister wants to see her nephew she can come up here it's only 3 and half hr drive. Do you think I'm not being fair to him not letting him take him to VA?

♥ The Prodigy Due March 3 (boy); 33 kids; Perth, Australia 5621 posts
Oct 1st '12
Quoting LaRelle:" I have no idea what is going on with Jax!!!! Monday night he woke up at 1130, 130, then again at 3 but ... [snip!] ... she can come up here it's only 3 and half hr drive. Do you think I'm not being fair to him not letting him take him to VA?"

oh no :( thats strange that he doesnt sleep through anymore i dont know what it could be :( axel still isnt which makes me think hes probably going to be one of those babies that doesnt sleep through till atleast 12 months :( i finally managed to get him to take a bottle of formula, i was looking for a goats milk formula because id heard its closest to breast milk and its in a specific pharmacy that i never go to so went to have a look, they only had the goats milk in 6 months + so i brought a newborn + regular formula in the same brand to try (its organic) it was pretty expensive and its in quite a small box. anyway we gave him a bottle on sat and he drank pretty much the whole thing! i was so shocked he had it again sunday and 2 bottles today :) cant believe i found something he likes! i will still bf mainly when he wakes during the night, but im so happy :)
so sat when he had the bottle he then had solids then a bf then bed i was sure he would sleep longer because he had eaten soooo much, but nope 3 hrs later he woke for a feed again, im starting to think he does it out of habit now rather than hunger. no i would do exactly the same i would not let sean or anyone take my son, if she wants to see him so bad she should come to you! i dont think you should let chris take him.

LaRelle Due May 4 (boy); Havre de Grace, Maryland 250 posts
Oct 1st '12
Quoting ♥ axel sean n me:" oh no :( thats strange that he doesnt sleep through anymore i dont know what it could be :( axel still ... [snip!] ... sean or anyone take my son, if she wants to see him so bad she should come to you! i dont think you should let chris take him."

I'm glad that Axel finally took a bottle!!! Maybe Sean can help with the night feeding so you can get some rest! I've had a very hard time this week, very emotional :( I miss Chris, but I know that he can't be the man I need or deserve. I just don't understand why he can't. I miss our family and that Jax can have both of his parents. I love Jax more than life it's self but I really don't want to be a single mom. If I knew that this was gonna be the outcome I would have never gave Chris a second chance or want to have a family with him so much. FML!!!!!! How is everything there?

♥ The Prodigy Due March 3 (boy); 33 kids; Perth, Australia 5621 posts
Oct 1st '12
Quoting LaRelle:" I'm glad that Axel finally took a bottle!!! Maybe Sean can help with the night feeding so you can get ... [snip!] ... I would have never gave Chris a second chance or want to have a family with him so much. FML!!!!!! How is everything there?"

no he refuses to but he will probably have to do his first bedtime feed because thats when i want him to have a bottle and he wont take it from me :( oh no im sorry your feeling so down! yer i understand it must be hard being a single parent. that really does suck! but you have to think about jax now and clearly chris isnt acting like a father, he needs to man up! everythings good here, it was super hot yesterday and my hayfever flared up bad and i felt sooo ill and axel was waking every 2 hours and by 3 had done his first night poop since newborn and cleaning up the mess fully woke him up, hows jaxs sleeping been?

LaRelle Due May 4 (boy); Havre de Grace, Maryland 250 posts
Oct 2nd '12
Quoting ♥ axel sean n me:" no he refuses to but he will probably have to do his first bedtime feed because thats when i want him ... [snip!] ... hours and by 3 had done his first night poop since newborn and cleaning up the mess fully woke him up, hows jaxs sleeping been?"

He is sleeping thru the night but starts to cry several times a night. He doesn't wake up or anything he just starts crying. Sometimes he will just cry once and go back to sleep or sometimes I have to give him his paci to get him to stop crying. I have no idea what's going on. I just wish I could get a night sleep without getting woken up. I have tried so many things to see if it helps getting him to sleep all night without crying, and NOTHING is working. It's been going on since we moved up here. ugh! I'm glad things are going well for you!

♥ The Prodigy Due March 3 (boy); 33 kids; Perth, Australia 5621 posts
Oct 10th '12
Quoting LaRelle:" He is sleeping thru the night but starts to cry several times a night. He doesn't wake up or anything ... [snip!] ... without crying, and NOTHING is working. It's been going on since we moved up here. ugh! I'm glad things are going well for you!"

haha atleast hes not waking every 3hrs i wish i could get a few extra hrs more than that its bloody ridiculous! my eyes are burning these days because im sooooo tired. so whatve you been up to recently? i have just had rent inspc so have been cleaning and getting the house ready. axels been a pain today, has slept maybe 10 mins altogether :( going to england in 2 1/2 weeks :)

LaRelle Due May 4 (boy); Havre de Grace, Maryland 250 posts
Oct 10th '12
Quoting ♥ axel sean n me:" haha atleast hes not waking every 3hrs i wish i could get a few extra hrs more than that its bloody ridiculous! ... [snip!] ... and getting the house ready. axels been a pain today, has slept maybe 10 mins altogether :( going to england in 2 1/2 weeks :)"

I don't know if I do get more than a 3hr sleep at a time either. He was up A LOT during the night. I'm sorry Axel isn't sleeping good for you either :( I don't understand what's going on with our boys! That is one thing Jax does do he does take naps, he can't go thru a day without sleeping. He might take short cat naps especially if we are running around a lot. He normally takes a few couple hr naps a day. I haven't been up to much just hanging out trying to find a job so I can support myself and Jax (not looking forward to it cuz I enjoying being home with Jax, but have to) Oh I bet you're excited!!! I'm going to Colorado to see my family the beginning of next month for my cousin's wedding. Everyone is very excited to see/meet Jax!!! There is gonna be a fight who gets to hold him between the aunts and my grandma lol They will have to learn to share hehe.

♥ The Prodigy Due March 3 (boy); 33 kids; Perth, Australia 5621 posts
Oct 17th '12
Quoting LaRelle:" I don't know if I do get more than a 3hr sleep at a time either. He was up A LOT during the night. I'm ... [snip!] ... There is gonna be a fight who gets to hold him between the aunts and my grandma lol They will have to learn to share hehe."

is jax sleeping better now? axels not, im not sure if i told you or not but he is now on meds for his reflux thank goodness! yesterday axel was the worst he has been in a long time! me and my friend whos flying to uk with me had to go shopping for some bits and axel screamed literally the whole time, it was sooo embarrassing :( i dont have a clue what was wrong with him but it was like all day and he would stop for like 10 mins now and again. hes fine today though. did you get a job? im going back to work dec 3rd back to my old work, not looking forward to it either but i need the money and its only going to be 2-3 days a week. when are you going colorado? in nov? is that where chris lives? will you be seeing him? haha thats exactly what its going to be like when i get to england, everyone is fighting to have us stay at their house lol so god knows what it will be like when everyone likes to hold him! i love that thing you put on my fb jax really is axels brother from another mother lol! they are twins! im intrigued to see how similar they look in a few years! sorry i didnt get back to you sooner x

LaRelle Due May 4 (boy); Havre de Grace, Maryland 250 posts
Oct 18th '12
Quoting ♥ axel sean n me:" is jax sleeping better now? axels not, im not sure if i told you or not but he is now on meds for his ... [snip!] ... mother lol! they are twins! im intrigued to see how similar they look in a few years! sorry i didnt get back to you sooner x"

No he's not sleeping better either. He has a cold so he's so congested and I think that's what is making it worse. Oh I'm glad he is on some meds and they are working! Oh man that makes a fun time suck. I have an interview on Monday but my friend knows the person so she got me the interview so hopefully I will get the job! It's only part time but when I lived here before Chris I worked at a restaurant and I'm really good friends with the owner and they want me to come back so maybe I will part time and then it will be like full time between the two. I just don't want to be away from Jax too much. Yes I leave to go to Colorado on Nov 3rd. No Chris lives in TN thank god!!! But Chris is coming here on Saturday to see Jax. He has been a complete a*****e and making things VERY stressful. He wants to spend time alone with Jax but I'm not comfortable, I don't trust him. I'm afraid he might take him. I'm not keeping him from him but I told him I will be there when he's with his son. He's not having any of that., so I thought I would compromise with him and I would let him have him alone but he had to sign an agreement. He's not having that either, it's his way or no way. It's not gonna work that way!!! I haven't been completely honest with him why I don't want to have him alone with him, I just tell him I'm not comfortable with Jax being away from me (which is true too) last night he told me "what ever your scared of you need to get over it real f**king fast" I seriously couldn't believe he would say that to me!!! That's how you treat the mother of your child, you has made things so easier for you than what you deserve??? I can't believe what he's turned into :( Well on a better note, I'm sure you will have lots of fun with your family and friends in the UK and maybe you could enjoy some time to yourself since everyone wants to hold/be with Axel!!! They do look a lot alike and I want to see what they look like in a few years too. It's ok no worries I know you are busy with Axel