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thisaccountisdone Pittsburgh, PA, United States 101 posts
Apr 25th '11
Quoting b*****e Barbie
jenn♥[+4] Due March 17 (girl); 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Rancho Cordova, CA, United States 7646 posts
Apr 25th '11
Quoting b*****e Barbie
Maluwinda [OB] 4 kids; Dillon, Montana 2853 posts
Apr 25th '11

<blockquote><b>Quoting RealMrs.Perfect{BGWC}:</b>" One of my abusers went free. Because he used to be a cop. My skin crawls when think about him, and when I see him.... And I do... He lives near my Mom... I normally end up in the ER."</blockquote>




I'm sorry sweetie. That's just horrible. I've been through abuse/ rape with eleven different people since the age of five. Its just really hard to get over. I've had people tell me that since its happened so much I must be an "easy" target or inviting it in some way. Sometimes I start believing them :(

user banned 48 kids; Brookfield, Wisconsin 7488 posts
Apr 25th '11
Quoting almuuh:" This is a great idea. Even though I don't admit it to anyone, I was raped when i was pregnant."


Oh mama ((hugs)) I am so sorry.

DescendedDelight TTC since Nov 2012; 1 child; Addison, Texas 18697 posts
Apr 25th '11
Quoting b*****e Barbie
DescendedDelight TTC since Nov 2012; 1 child; Addison, Texas 18697 posts
Apr 25th '11
Quoting ♥JenniferMarie[WP]:" thats good that you can qualify. if my crackhead uncle can get it for no reason then someone who deserves ... [snip!] ... sucks that you have to deal with all that though. it cant be easy having all those people up in your business about everything."


Definitely not. :/

thisaccountisdone Pittsburgh, PA, United States 101 posts
Apr 25th '11
Quoting ♥JenniferMarie[WP]:" that is completely ridiculous! my abuse started when i was 4-5 and everyone said if i was telling the ... [snip!] ... for support no matter what situation made your situation probably more difficult to handle. im sorry you had to deal with that."

Honey DO NOT listen to them. It started for me at 4 and didn't end till i was 16! My bio mother SOLD me and my younger sister for money for drugs. Just cus we were little doesn't mean we are lying.

jenn♥[+4] Due March 17 (girl); 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Rancho Cordova, CA, United States 7646 posts
Apr 25th '11
Quoting Mrs.PerfectSluttt♥:" I was raped when I was 17 by my boyfriend. I'd had a tonsilectomy and had a couple complications. My ... [snip!] ... My mom came home early because she had a bad feeling and as she was pulling up she saw his going in the opposite direction. "

thats horrible hun. if someone had taken advantage of me when i was in that position i would be so upset. im sorry someone you trusted betrayed you like that.

thisaccountisdone Pittsburgh, PA, United States 101 posts
Apr 25th '11
Quoting b*****e Barbie
DescendedDelight TTC since Nov 2012; 1 child; Addison, Texas 18697 posts
Apr 25th '11
Quoting Mrs.PerfectSluttt♥:" I was raped when I was 17 by my boyfriend. I'd had a tonsilectomy and had a couple complications. My ... [snip!] ... My mom came home early because she had a bad feeling and as she was pulling up she saw his going in the opposite direction. "


I am so sorry. Did you ever make a report?

jenn♥[+4] Due March 17 (girl); 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Rancho Cordova, CA, United States 7646 posts
Apr 25th '11
Quoting RealMrs.Perfect{BGWC}:" Honey DO NOT listen to them. It started for me at 4 and didn't end till i was 16! My bio mother SOLD me and my younger sister for money for drugs. Just cus we were little doesn't mean we are lying."

mine ended when i was about 9, but i didnt get justice til i was almost 13. thankfully my mother believes me. and my sister. its mostly his family that doesnt. it doesnt even effect me anymore that they dont believe me, but it makes me want to really speak out for the girls that were abused that young and no one believes.

jenn♥[+4] Due March 17 (girl); 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Rancho Cordova, CA, United States 7646 posts
Apr 25th '11
Quoting DescendedDelight:" Definitely not. :/"

well at least your getting the help you need. thats the most important <3

user banned 48 kids; Brookfield, Wisconsin 7488 posts
Apr 25th '11
Quoting DescendedDelight:" I am so sorry. Did you ever make a report?"


Yes, He was charged with sexual battery and statutory rape. Served 3 years and then moved to Texas. He attempted to add me on facebook about 5 months ago.

thisaccountisdone Pittsburgh, PA, United States 101 posts
Apr 25th '11
Quoting ♥JenniferMarie[WP]:" mine ended when i was about 9, but i didnt get justice til i was almost 13. thankfully my mother believes ... [snip!] ... they dont believe me, but it makes me want to really speak out for the girls that were abused that young and no one believes."


I know the feeling. SO has dealt with my panic attacks. And he knows I am parinoid... I've told him that I don't want him to take our daughter out of the room to change her EVER. And he can't hold her or help wash her in the shower.... I panic.

Maluwinda [OB] 4 kids; Dillon, Montana 2853 posts
Apr 25th '11

<blockquote><b>Quoting RealMrs.Perfect{BGWC}:</b>" That does not make it your fault. If you didn't want it, and I am positive you didn't, it is not your fault."</blockquote>



It was two days before chistmas. My dh and his wife left to get her kids (they didn't have a vehicle) and asked me to come keep an eye on my two babies and his brother. He was there (come to find out he was a previous offender) but couldn't be alone w/ his brother. I warned them that I had taken my medication and they needed to hurry. They were gone for almost two hours. I remember him having me come into the room and my kids crying outside the door. By that time I was out of it and falling asleep. It started coming back in the days after but at the time it happened I didn't remember because my ambien caused amnesia effects in me. I've never taken that f**king medicine since.